We got our pronouns.

The pronoun things was going on in Academia, not the rest of society.

"The perceived "obsession" on the political right with pronouns stems from a belief that the contemporary emphasis on individual pronoun choice is a symbol of progressive "gender ideology" that challenges traditional understandings of biological sex, free speech, and societal norms."

Yes, change happens, it's going to be changing, but not much in our life times. It's trivial. You let yourself get directed, manipulated because you are afraid. Do you think someone transitioning hurts you? Exactly how does it hurt you? It doesn't. Sure you can contrive a hurt if you so desire, but I think you hurt yourself more by thinking you are separate, detached somehow.